Being a Multi-Faceted Lady With Extra Than Inc.


Hello stunning TSC readers, I’m past humbled to be right here. My title is Jordan, I’m a former Miss Arizona USA, skilled mannequin, founding father of the feminine empowerment firm More Than Inc, host of the I Am More Than Podcast, self acceptance advocate & a brand new bride! As a way to perceive the mission behind my firm, it’s necessary to get a glimpse of my story.

Let’s rewind to 2018. I’ve lastly achieved my life-long dream of turning into a full-time mannequin in New York Metropolis. I used to be booked from 9-5 day by day operating from fittings, to castings, to shoots, residing the exhausting lifetime of a mannequin. I all the time imagined being knowledgeable mannequin could be very glamorous, identical to the way you see on TV and on the spotlight reels on Insta. I shortly realized it’s hardly ever glamorous and the hustle by no means stops. Nonetheless, I felt grateful to be modeling and was continually hopeful I’d e book a life-changing job that might make the hustle really feel price it.

One specific day, I used to be booked with 4 fittings and in-between I had a casting for a brand new consumer in Instances Sq.. It’s the center of winter, I’m carrying what seems like a 50 lbs bag of issues and am actually sprinting so I’m not late. I get to the casting, and instantly the girl tells me to take away my clothes to be measured.

This wasn’t unusual, purchasers usually measure to make sure your measurements align with what’s listed in your comp card. Nevertheless, it’s all the time performed in a personal room. This specific girl requested me to undress to my bra and underwear so she may measure me in entrance of a room of about 8 males. I hesitated and mentioned I’d choose she measure me in non-public, the place the room proceeded to roll their eyes as if I used to be some prima donna.

She started to aggressively transfer the tape measure round my physique as she shouted out my measurements to the room of individuals. After every measurement they’d remark their ideas “her legs are a ¼ inch over and her waist is ½ over however her arms are ⅛ below…” They continued to speak about me as if I wasn’t standing proper in entrance of them…this was very triggering for me. You see at this level in my life, I had lastly overcome some extreme physique picture and confidence points however this expertise was bringing again a flood of feelings and I may really feel the tears start to construct up. All of the sudden a thought got here into my thoughts so strongly it jolted me…I’m greater than a measurement.

That one affirmation modified my life in an surprising means. I had a newfound gratitude for the traumatic, wild, and thrilling experiences I had during the last 5 years. It felt as if all these moments ready me for one thing a lot larger than modeling, that’s when MORE THAN was born.

Let’s begin from the start. I grew up in a small city in Colorado with desires of turning into knowledgeable mannequin. I’d minimize out photos from Seventeen and Glamour Journal, pose in entrance of the mirror, pressure my household to take photographs of me, and dream of the day I’d be the mannequin younger women regarded as much as. I used to be in seventh grade when the boy I favored instructed me I used to be too fats to be a mannequin, and that’s after I started equating my weight with my price. 

I’d love to present you a extra in depth take a look at my journey, however for the sake of this publish I’ll give ya the spark word model. If you wish to hear extra particulars of my story, try our first podcast episode Introducing More Than.

I lastly pushed myself to present modeling a strive after I was 17, freshman yr at ASU. I went to an open casting name at FORD in Arizona the place I used to be instructed by the agent “you’re stunning, however don’t have the measurements which are vital for the business” and modeling wasn’t for me. She affirmed each insecurity of mine with out even understanding me, which is when all of the unfavourable self discuss I’d been feeding myself for years was validated.

Throughout this time, I used to be having some critical well being points, and spent extra time on the Mayo Clinic than I did at school. Medical doctors initially thought I may have a tumor and after months of testing, contradicting diagnoses and no actual solutions, I used to be prescribed 13 completely different drugs to handle my signs. 

Fortunately, my household additionally relocated to Arizona throughout this time so I moved house to focus totally on my well being. I started finding out diet out of necessity, determined to get off this medicine and heal naturally so I may really feel like myself once more. A university pal launched me to a private coach who had related well being points to me, and he promised if I educated with him for 3 months I might get off all medicine. 

Positive sufficient, 90 days later I used to be off my medicine and started feeling wholesome from the within out. The fitness center I educated at additionally occurred to coach health opponents, who on the time had been my concept of “good well being.” I needed to push myself, and determined to enroll to compete in a health competitors. Over the following 3 months I educated a number of instances a day, restricted myself, and (stupidly) started taking fats burners. In consequence, I misplaced 55 kilos. I keep in mind standing on that stage in my blinged-out scorching pink bikini feeling so happy with how far I’d come. I positioned within the high 5, and walked off stage anxious to eat potatoes & eggs. As my household and I walked to the automotive one of many judges mentioned to me “you belong on the Victoria’s Secret Runway” which reignited my want to mannequin. The next week I went again to the open casting, and the identical agent who beforehand instructed me I didn’t have what it took, signed me on the spot. 

Shortly afterwards I used to be approached to compete at Miss Arizona USA, and after quite a lot of convincing from my sorority sisters I made a decision to go for it. I walked into pageant weekend with zero expertise or expectations, and walked away the newly topped Miss Arizona USA 2014.

In 6 brief months every thing about my life modified. I went from a shy sophomore in school, to a magnificence queen and signed mannequin being featured on TV, interviewed for Yahoo! Information, Glamor Journal, Vogue Italia and so many extra. All my childhood desires had been coming true and I felt unstoppable. I started chatting with younger ladies at faculties concerning the significance of confidence and going after your targets.

Lengthy story brief, as I used to be coaching for Miss USA all of the destruction I had performed to my physique the earlier yr caught up with me, inflicting extreme metabolic harm. Though my exercises and food plan weren’t altering, the size was and I shortly moved from measurement 0 again to my measurement 6 physique. I went from my most assured self, to my most insecure self in a matter of months. The thought of hundreds of thousands of individuals seeing me in a bikini at Miss USA was daunting. I confirmed as much as Baton Rouge, Louisiana with a really completely different mindset than my earlier competitors, however prepared to present it every thing I had. As I stood on stage with 50 different ladies, I felt adrenaline rush via my physique anxiously ready to listen to my title referred to as into the highest 15. “ARIZONA!”… I had secured my spot on the stay telecast and I used to be able to shine. I placed on my teeny tiny white bikini, and walked out proper after Florida Georgia Line and Nelly completed the refrain of “Cruise.” I didn’t make it to the highest 5, however I felt so happy with myself for coming up to now and relieved it was over. Once I arrived again in Arizona, the native information interviewed me and I used to be requested the way it felt to be thought-about “one of many largest women within the competitors.” Right now I used to be a measurement 6. 

My confidence was on a downward spiral and I started to retreat once more, identical to I did in seventh grade when that silly boy referred to as me fats. After passing on my crown a couple of months later, I finished modeling, I finished public talking, and I turned somebody I hardly acknowledged anymore. I went again to highschool, received a company job, and settled in each means. The whole lot I’d been avoiding in my private life caught as much as me and hit me like a ton of bricks and I felt overwhelmed, remoted, and trapped. It was a tough chapter however ultimately, I used to be capable of see the sunshine on the finish of the tunnel. I received sick of my excuses, sick of this narrative I used to be giving myself, and decided to change into somebody I used to be happy with. Slowly, I began engaged on constructing again some confidence. I put an excessive give attention to self love, I started treating myself with kindness, began opening as much as trusted folks round me, nourishing my physique, journaling, setting routines, manifesting, and dreaming once more. I launched a weblog the place I began speaking about my experiences and my insecurities as a method to vent and hoped perhaps my vulnerability would resonate with others. To my shock, ladies began reaching out to me and sharing my weblog made them really feel much less alone. All of the sudden I felt seen, supported, and inspired to start out purpose setting once more. 

As I sat at my desk at work in 2016 (studying The Skinny Confidential day by day) I started daydreaming about what I needed my life to appear to be. I assumed again to being a bit lady in her small city, dreaming of being the mannequin in {a magazine}. I started to visualise how good it could really feel to mannequin once more, however in my pure measurement with my newfound confidence and contemporary perspective. I referred to as my modeling agent, Terri from Company AZ, and instructed her I used to be able to mannequin once more however this time I needed to see if I may make it in New York Metropolis. With out hesitation, she welcomed me again to the business and supported me wholeheartedly. I got here house from work, and instructed my boyfriend I needed to maneuver to NYC to mannequin, that night time we booked a one-way ticket.

Arriving in NYC was essentially the most terrifying factor I’ve ever performed, however I additionally felt wildly assured on the similar time. After 6 months of hustling, I lastly received signed by Wilhelmina fashions. 3 months later, I used to be dropped for being too small. Shortly after I used to be signed by STATE Mgmt, and started working full time. I may write a novel about this loopy chapter, however the feeling of lastly undertaking a purpose I had for myself, by myself phrases was so gratifying. If you wish to hear extra about my modeling journey in my very own phrases, try my solo episode More Than Measurements 

I modeled professionally within the metropolis for 4 years, and my favourite a part of the business by far was the unbelievable ladies I used to be assembly on set. They labeled themselves as fashions, however to me they had been a lot MORE THAN a mannequin. They had been mothers, entrepreneurs, psychological well being advocates, college students, audio system, sisters, daughters, companions, activists. I felt just like the label of a mannequin didn’t correctly summarize who they had been. That’s after I started realizing we’re all a lot greater than the labels we use to outline ourselves. 

I started wrestling with this idea of a label, and began seeing how large of a task labels play in each girl’s life. In American tradition, ladies have been programmed to outline ourselves as a method to let society know who you might be, what your worth is. It’s simple to place others, and put your self in a field and conceal behind the label you are feeling encompasses you. So usually I hear ladies say “I’m only a mother” – “I’m only a pupil” – “I’m only a mannequin” – “I’m simply…I’m simply…I’m simply…” Girls are multifaceted, we’re a lot greater than. 

I needed to create an organization that might encourage ladies to step out of the field, out of their consolation zones, and perceive that it’s okay to be multifaceted… Actually, it must be celebrated. It’s okay to be a profitable enterprise girl, and likewise be an unbelievable mom. It’s okay to be a mom, and have pursuits, passion’s, tasks, and a life exterior the house. It’s okay to place your self first, to stay curious, and to embrace all the attractive labels that total embody who you actually are. Making a protected house stays my highest precedence, the place ladies can study from one another, encourage each other, understand we’re all limitless, and finally know they aren’t navigating this life alone.

I outlined 4 broad, but particular classes to embody More Than: Psychological Well being, Well being & Wellness, Confidence, and Social Points. Each dialog, each occasion, every thing we do is meant to deliver ladies collectively over subjects that actually matter. I received my enterprise license on March third, 2020. Shortly after, COVID-19 modified the world as we knew it. My boyfriend and I as soon as once more booked a method tickets, this time from NY to Arizona to “wait out” the pandemic, pondering it could final about 2 weeks. My modeling profession nearly ended in a single day, and I felt disconnected from all of the individuals who had been inspiring me. I used to be craving motivating conversations with ladies I admired and needed to determine a method to let ladies all around the world in on these conversations. That’s why I made a decision to launch the I Am More Than podcast.

Over the previous 2 years, I’ve produced 3 seasons with 47 episodes. My purpose in every episode is to interview visitors via a deeper lens and focus on subjects that aren’t generally talked about. Whether or not it’s diving into confidence with Hunter McGrady, More Than Worthy, discussing psychological well being with Mykenna Dorn, More Than a Meme, taking a holistic method to well being & wellness with Megan Roup, More Than Movement, studying how you can be an ally with Tiffany Turner Moon, More Than an Ally, or sharing trauma and triumph with Olivia Jordan, More Than #MeToo. We spotlight a variety of subjects, private tales, and classes with our neighborhood in an effort to make our listeners really feel impressed and fewer alone. I’ve been so impacted by these tales, and it’s been such an honor to have an viewers all around the world.

We’ve additionally designed merchandise as a means for our neighborhood to rep our messaging in an elegant means. Our affirmation line is my private favourite, which incorporates sweatshirts in addition to stickers supposed to be positioned in your mirror to jumpstart your confidence journey with each day affirmations. 

Quickly, we’ll be internet hosting meet-ups IRL as an opportunity for us to all join and construct deep, genuine relationships.

Extra Than is a lot larger than me, however I created this for girls like me. Girls with large targets making an attempt to navigate this loopy life. Girls who refuse to be restricted, who’re bored with hiding behind a label, and who’re interested in simply how far we will go. I wish to be surrounded by neighborhood, I wish to study, I wish to evolve, and I wish to be pushed, which is why this motion and our mission is so significant to me. If this resonates with you, I’d love so that you can be a part of our neighborhood as nicely. Let’s construct this motion collectively.

8 years in the past I used to be studying The Skinny Confidential day by day, now I’m writing my very own piece for the weblog…loopy what occurs once you cease limiting your self. 

Sustain with me on insta @jordwess & @morethaninc. Tune into the I Am More Than Podcast and take a look at our limited edition Merch on our website.

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